Stop believing that it’s important to define a person’s gender.

If this seems like a crazy concept to you, please take time to examine your expectations. Ask yourself what gender roles you’ve been taught that are causing the need for you to put someone else in a defined box. Then consider how possible it is for an individual to contribute to society in a positive way without them having to conform to our expectations of them. Ask yourself if you want them to be a certain way to make you comfortable, or if you truly desire for their life to be better. If it’s the latter, consider that you might not know enough to make a judgement call on that. Let all that shit go and let people be the biggest, brightest, best version of themselves. Then think about how you could follow their example in a way that makes your life bigger, brighter, and better.